How did you present it? I go through travel expenses i.e. airfare, rental cars, hotel, etc. I only get to see my daughter once about every one and half months because of this.
Frequency in visitation could increase if there was some help on the other end or reasonable consideration. The visits are important too! I have considered relocating to the state my daughter lives in, but who is to say the mother will not uproot and leave that state.