Well, I went to court yesterday and got my ass handed to me on a platter! Now I am seriously considering applying for bad credit installment loan as my ex brought a criminal defense attorney and he did what I expected, he started arguing the legal residence and custody of my son rather than the actions of my ex. She lied on the stand with impunity as I had no way to prove she was lying. I did catch her in one , she said she had never signed a court order detailing custody.
I produced a copy and gave it to the judge. he ruled that this was trespass rather than domestic abuse and denied the order but did say she had no right to be at my home. I called my lawyer and he insisted that I register my son in the schools for the county we live in and take trespass charges against my ex. This is an ugly situation with no pretty end in sight.