First off, I would like to commend you for your efforts

Pepe, First off, I would like to commend you for your efforts to be there for your child. I know it’s very frustrating and nerve-racking when the other parent frustrates visitation. I have taken my ex to court on several occasions for this reason. I can relate with you on the Judge not doing anything when the other parent violates the order. I am the NCP and we have shared parenting. I think the court system calls it joint custody. Anyway, we are separated by 1500 miles and this causes problems during visitation. The best thing I can tell you …

There is one thing

There is one thing that parents involved in a divorce forget, and the court systems cause from day one of any divorce action. The courts place the children in the middle of a already heated battled. Picking one parent over the the other, as the Custodial parent. The court forcing one parent to feel better that the other. And from day, one, one or both parents begin to use the children has a tool over the other. And it is the Child/children who end up being forced to pick one over the other. And it is the Child/children that are …